Have you ever tried to make your kids understand that you can’t always be there for them? Or the idea of being busy with work, chores and responsibilities made you feel guilty all the time? You want to be present for every moment, but life’s demands often leave you busy and guilty.
Let’s explore how you can help your kids understand “busy love” and maintain strong connections even during your busiest days.
What Is ‘Busy Love’?
Busy love is the care and affection parents show, even while managing the demands of daily life. It’s the small, meaningful actions that remind your children they are loved, even if your schedule doesn’t allow for hours of uninterrupted time together.
For kids, your busyness might feel confusing or disappointing at times. But with the right communication and gestures, you can help them see the love behind your busyness.
How to Show Love When You’re Busy
Children may not understand why you’re busy unless you explain it to them. Use simple, age-appropriate language to help them see the bigger picture. Even on the busiest days, small rituals can help your kids feel connected. This could be a quick hug before leaving for work, a bedtime kiss, or a short phone call during your lunch break.
Small Gestures That Matters
A small gesture can go a long way. Write a note to leave in their lunchbox, send a playful text to an older child, or surprise them with their favorite treat. These actions remind them of your love, even when you’re apart.
Helping Kids See the Love Behind the Busyness
Let your kids know that being busy doesn’t mean you love them any less. Remind them often that they’re your top priority and that your busyness is for their benefit, whether it’s to provide for the family or to take care of their needs.
Want To Know More About “Busy Love”?
The concept of busy love is beautifully illustrated in I Wish My Mommy Was an Octopus by Erin Shular. This heartwarming children’s book explores a child’s wish for their mother to have eight arms so she can juggle everything life demands while still having time to hug and play.
Grab your copy now and learn about the busiest moments where love still can be shown.
